In Switzerland it is traditional on the Epiphany to go round your house blessing it for the new year, finishing with the symbols C+M+B written above your front door.
As with all the other Catholic holy days which run the risk of passing by unmarked by Zoe and Bruno, Bruno's mother dutifully brought us the necessary holy incense and some chalk. With the incense came a little leaflet explaining how to go around your house, what to say etc, which somebody had thoughtfully brightened up by adding a drawing of the three wise men at the top.
"I'd better not forget to make one of them a black man!" thought the artist. "Not in this day and age of multicultural Switzerland! If it's good enough for the renaissance artists, it's good enough for Village Bruno!"
So he drew a golliwog.
Dear Friend,
It was really lovely to have you visit for the evening. We hadn't seen you for lord knows how long, and it was great to catch up. We really are glad that you got in touch because you were going to be in the area. All good things must come to an end, however, and with that in mind, I would like to respectfully fill you in on some of the clues as to when that end has come. I realise that as a host, it is my role to make you feel welcome however long you stay, and I apologise that I was not able to keep this up until the bitter end. But seriously my dear friend, here are some tips for next time you are a guest.
1. Once your hosts start talking about their plans for bed, it is time to leave.
2. If your hosts have fed their baby THREE TIMES while you are there, you have been there too long.
3. If your host goes to put the baby down, and then her husband has to go and get her because she has fallen asleep on the rocking chair, it is time to leave.
4. If your hosts start reminding you of the time with "only XX hours to go until the night feed", it is time to leave.
5. If you are talking, and BOTH OF YOUR HOSTS ARE LISTENING WITH THEIR HEADS RESTING ON THE TABLE, it is time to leave.
Again, apologies if my stamina as a host meant that these subtle signs of fatigue slipped out, but then, I have the feeling that they didn't strike you too deeply.
In happy anticipation of your next visit,
I am as always, your willing host. xx
"I don't know about all these mothers who claim they don't have time to eat properly with a small baby. You won't catch me falling into that trap. I'm going to fill my fridge with bite sized cherry tomatoes and grapes and make up delicious banana smoothies which I can sip on with one hand while engaging little Toby in developmental play."
What did I have for lunch today? A packet of crisps.
